... dedicated to the one and only Wengky Ariando!
Back to bussiness, to answer it you just need a few seconds to type his name on google and click enter! But long story short, he is one of my closest mate (eh iya ga cun kita temenan kan?) who recently share me about this quarter-life-crisis. And well according to this link I am having that kind of syndrome at the moment, hell yeah.
Who is he?
Uh but anyway as this is my first post on 2014, should I be congratulating you all a HAPPY NEW YEAR? Its already february but whatever I havent blogging since last year lol. Seize the year folks!
Back to bussiness, to answer it you just need a few seconds to type his name on google and click enter! But long story short, he is one of my closest mate (eh iya ga cun kita temenan kan?) who recently share me about this quarter-life-crisis. And well according to this link I am having that kind of syndrome at the moment, hell yeah.
1. You’ve been daydreaming about doing something crazy.
2. …but you feel paralyzed by indecision.
2. …but you feel paralyzed by indecision.
3. You feel increasingly nostalgic for your high school and college days.
4. The idea of making a budget terrifies you.
5. You’re starting to think of your dating life differently.
6. You have a sudden, intense fear of failure.
7. You’re bored with your friends.
8. You constantly compare yourself to your friends who are your age…
9. …or your parents when THEY were your age.
10. You feel like your twenties aren’t turning out how you expected they would.
Me myself already feel 8/10 from that list since last year (at the time when I finally finish my undergraduate thesis) but thank God I dont feel like constantly living in such syndrome. It is a thing which somehow rises in unexpected time, like when your classmate get married (read point 8 lol). At such time, I likely feel so unsignificant for hours or days but then I see a light at the end of it as by either searching a sanctuary or listening to certain music. A quite and comfy food court, breezy songs (London Grammar, Laura Marling, and friends), and a cup of cold coffee or green tea will be the best combination for recent me. Even when I managed to get a grip of myself for a while, it doesnt mean I fully overcome this quarter-life-crisis thing. I still frequently lost, unsure, etc like those list above mentioned. An exact answer may not come immediately to our life but if we patient enough, always be the best of ourselves, and get closer to God everyday, hope still there remained for us :)
So how about you guys? Mind to share the story with me?
Oh and about point 3. I DO MISS MY DAYS ON HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE, like a lot.
XOXO,
Icha
